The question I had to women who want to be surrogates but did not want to go through an agency is WHY NOT? What is wrong with agencies? I know why some Intended Parents don’t want to hire an agency and #1 is money but why do surrogates avoid agencies? Here are some of the top reasons women ‘go independent’:

#1 Potential Surrogates feel that they are saving potential IPs money

#2 Potential Surrogates can set their own base fee without an agency interfering and if the IP is ‘saving money’ (see #1) it can be given to the Independent surrogate

#3 Surrogates don’t have to go through the screening an agency requires. Examples:
A. BMI higher then 30 would be “OK”
B. Not parenting their own children would be “OK”
C. On public assistance would be fine
D. No Insurance is OK because they could be on public assistance
E. No Background Check because IP’s don’t want to spend the money
F. No psychological evaluation unless required by the clinic
G. Taking certain medications for anxiety for example might be acceptable
H. Hazardous working conditions can be overlooked
I. A ‘retainer fee’ can be requested
J. If Traditional and in-home insemination then No IQ testing, No STD testing, no waiting for sperm quarantine

#4 Going through an agency requires too much time and paperwork

Are these REALLY the type of women that IP’s want to carry their child? NO! But then again I don’t think that Intended Parents who want to save time and money know what they are getting themselves into when they don’t ask the right questions or require the most basic of background information.

Something to think about!