No two people are alike. And our approach to sex is just as different. I masturbate, and when I do, I visualize all sorts of things. My boyfriend masturbates, and I would be foolish to assume or expect him to only visualize me when doing so. I have a few toys of my own to help me, he has his, and sometimes we use them in each other’s company.

If my boyfriend wanted a love doll, I’d be fine with it. It would be unfair for me to grab a dildo and pleasure myself while telling him that he cannot do the same. I don’t expect that when he masturbates, all he thinks about is how wonderful his hand is, just as I don’t. So what does it matter if his sex toy becomes a little more realistic as long as he can continue to love me?

Also, the last time I checked, not all love dolls are for men only. Sure, maybe men are more likely to purchase them, but women have the right to do so as well.

That being said…

What if a person has disabilities that inhibit them from having a decent sexual experience with a real person?

What if a love doll is being used by a couple as a means of adding to their sexual experiences together?

What if a person has psychological disorders that prevent them from connecting with other people, but they still have the desire to sexually satisfied?

What if a husband/wife uses a love doll instead of having an affair to help keep the home stable?

What if a person’s significant other is hospitalized and may not recover for a long time if ever, but they want to remain loyal to them so they use a love doll?

I won’t be so niave as to believe that love dolls could be addictive to some people, or further break down their social and communication skills, but not everyone fits that mold. Odds are, in most of those situations the love doll isn’t the source of the problem, but it may be enhancing the problem. It’s more niave, if you ask me, to assume that there couldn’t be a good time and place for love dolls. So don’t be so quick to judge others.

I have no love doll, nor does my boyfriend. We are not planning on having one. I do not know anyone personally that does have one. I have a stable relationship now, but like most people, have had highs and lows with my current boyfriend of several years. We work through them, we communicate, and we love each other because that’s what makes us happy. That’s all you need to do for yourself is find what makes you happy, and let other people find their own way to happiness, whatever it may be.

A fool rages or laughs – but is still a fool.
A wise person learns from true honest criticism and is the better for it. Classify yourself.

I’m happily married, with a wife of over 20 years. Never had sex with anyone but her, have 6 wonderful children, am a local businessman, father, church goer, etc….

but…. I have read one too many women’s opinions on these silicone honeys, so here you get the whole barrel full.

Read on, and at the end I’ll tell you my wife’s conclusion to all this….

Hate to say it, but for many many years women wanted independence, wanted to look like men , act like men, be like men….

Well, now that some have achieved that goal they stand back and wonder why men aren’t attracted to them anymore.

The woman [in general] is sexually aroused much less than the man, and it aroused more by words than by sight.

A man thinks about sex and wants it about 5000 times a day, it seems. That’s because of the hormones in him that give him that drive and it “hurts” when that drive is not satisfied. The man IS aroused by sight.

So it should be no surprise that he wants a physically visually appealing female form to get him aroused and satisfied.

So ladies, if you are not physically attractive to your man, and sexually satisfying his needs, and are sending him to an office full of young, tight sweatered honies, you are asking for it!

There’s no special anything for the fat and slovenly women. Men are not turned on by fat.

So the woman gets dressed in tight sexy clothes to “get her man” then gets married, gets fat, and dresses like a slob and wonders why her man starts looking at the younger, more slimmer versions of what she used to be.

He could care less about a relationship with the girl, but he has a hormonal NEED that is NOT being fulilled by his wife. And believe me ladies, if you don’t fulfill your husbands needs, HE WILL GET IT FULFILLED SOMEWHERE ELSE…. SOMEHOW.

It is HER FAULT he’s looking at the other woman. This is the point women don’t want to face.

Believe me, after 20 years of marriage, my wife realized this, lost 80 lbs, dresses sexy tight things for me, is all over me before I go to work, when I get home at night….believe me ladies, I haven’t had time to look at anyone else, much less want to.

A survey of 10,000 men taken by a woman [half religious, half not] found that ALL were quietly ANGRY because they were not having their sexual needs met by their wives.

YET the wives would get furious if they were to even remotely “seem” to have their needs met by anyone else.

So the wife doesn’t want to give the husband what he needs to fulfull his deep physical need.

Believe me, take away your air, or take away your food, and suddenly you become aware of a need YOU have.

Just because the woman does not have the need, doesn’t mean the man is bad because he does.

The guy is not a sex maniac like you portray, or a pervert, rapist or any of the sort.

He’s a human male, created in God’s image, given a deep strong desire to be attracted by a beautiful female form, that help satisfy his sexual desire and do what God commanded – multiply and replenish the earth.

Women can boo hoo this all they want, and do, and as a result the man now has technology to replace the woman – and now she’s furious.

Well done ladies.

For all you hot babes who blew that poor guy off in college, laughed at the fella with low self esteem, broke a date that meant nothing to you but the world to him, who cared nothing for how the guy thinks, feels, or needs….

Those guys now have silicone state of the art babes, and THEY can choose WHO THEY WANT. Size, shape, tan, breast size, ethnicity, eye / hair / nail / makeup color…

These silicone honeys even speak, can breath, have heartbeats, can be internally warmed, are soft, appealing, and are ready to please their man at any time, in any way. No more “not tonight honey I have a headache”…

Well that’s ok babe, go take your asprin, these guys have another to replace you now.

You see ladies, the ONLY reason a guy needs to get married to you is for SEX. If he wanted a fat live in partner, he can advertise in the paper – he doesn’t need to be married. And now, thanks to the wonderful world of silicone science, he doesn’t have to be.

I was sitting on the couch at one point, and had fallen asleep. Evidently something hot and heavy had crept into the set, because the next thing I know, my wife was waking me up yelling at me for “what I had been watching”. I didn’t even see what see saw, much less was watching it.

Anyway, as she was angry, thinking I was meeting my sexual needs in private, I sat down with her and had a quiet talk giving her most of the above.

Once she realized SHE was the source of sexual frustration in the family, how SHE had grown fat and was not sexually arousing like her former 120 pound blonde babe that I married, how I had refused the MANY NUMEROUS chances to fulfill my sexual needs, going unmet by her, through other women’s invitations – and TURNED THEM DOWN, how many times I went to bed ALONE, CRYING because it hurt so bad, I desperately needed to ejaculate, AND MY WIFE WAS OFF SLEEPING IN THE KIDS BED, AS USUAL, and I was left alone, AS USUAL.

Can you blame me?

Once she realized what SHE was doing, or not doing, she cried a bit, set on a “diet free” weight reduction program.

Ladies for those of you who don’t know what a diet free weight reduction program is – SHE STOPPED STUFFING HER MOUTH WITH FOOD!!!

Funny how that works, its free, and she’s now down to 150 lbs from 200 lbs in 5 months, her skin is tightening up as she loses 3-5 lbs / week, and she’ll stop losing at 120lbs.

She can now get into her slimmer clothes, she has less weight to carry around, is a MUCH HAPPIER person, has begun to buy lingerie FOR ME – hasn’t done that in 20 years, AND has gotten over the need for jealousy of a silicone piece of rubber.

Yes, she thinks its a good idea to have a “tool” for me to be satisified with when she is out with the kids, or one of her many activities.

I can’t believe it. It’s like I’m married to a new woman, and all because I had the courage to confront HER with what SHE was doing to our marriage, by depriving her husband of the attention and sexual appeal that he so desperately longed for AND NEEDED – FROM HIS WIFE!! not other ladies.

You couldn’t pay me enough to have an affair with another woman, and yet just like a razor shaves the face, and shampoo cleans the hair, and a toilet – you get it, so a silicone piece of rubber can help a man who is desperately lonely, divorced, severely disfigured, a widower who will never remarry, a YOUNG man so he will have an “unloaded gun” where around the young ladies, and on and on.

Ladies, YOU are the sexual one in the family. EVERYONE is the family, at one point or another, is sucking on YOUR breasts. If YOU do not give your husband the attention he need, HE WILL FIND IT ELSEWHERE.

Don’t poo hoo the silicone dolls.

For years women have geared, disrespected, alienated, and made fun of men because of their GOD GIVEN sex drive.

Well congratulations, now the men no longer need you.

Think about it.
When you get done being angry, put wisdom into motion, lose the weight, dress sexy again for your man.

He will be shocked, but once he revives, he’ll be appreciative like you would never believe.

-American Dad and Husband